How to Be a Wife

Being a wife is a delicate and precise recipe that begins before your proposal.

-Bee Robbins

Breathing Exercise: Find a comfortable place you can lay or sit comfortably and close your eyes. Inhale inward using only your nose. This should be a slow and smooth inhale. When you reach your capacity, exhale using only your nose. This should also be a slow and relaxed exhale. This breathing technique is to help us recenter our point of peace and focus on controlling our breath. Repeat as needed.

Being at Peace: We must be at peace as ourselves, by ourselves. We must love who we are as individuals. We must be at peace with and proud of our accomplishments.

Be Engaged in Ourselves: We need to find our own hobbies and interests fascinating. It’s essential to have our own tastes and experiences. This is where the key-term Solo Date stems from. More information in the How to engage in wonderful solo dates article.

Pamper Ourselves Frequently: to feel and look our best ! Common activities such as personal and dental hygiene are a necessity. For more information I recommend you checkout How to bathe yourself like Royalty Article. Utilize any beauty services you love. Manicures and pedicures, massages, hair appointments, unwanted hair removal. Clean your home and laundry or hire a service for that. Ensure you feel comfortable and clean.

Have a clean but playful diet: Make sure you are eating fresh produce everyday. Outside of that, enjoy your freedom and let your taste buds explore.

Learn to manage your emotional responses: Authentic emotions are an important part of life. Many things have the opportunity to incite anger, irritation, sadness, or jealousy. We must be able to recognize when these emotions are present and manage our responses to them. A key part of this, is reflecting on past behaviors. Do I yell or physically harm others? Do I speak unkindly? Do I seek to get “even”. Do I belittle or verbally abuse others? Am I abusive in other ways? It’s easier to reflect before we become wives. Practice pleasant responses as our significant others deserve our softness and patience.

Identify your boundaries: Managing our emotional responses is NOT an invitation to accept maltreatment. Relationships need honesty, peace, gentleness and enjoyability from both parties. Identify your boundaries before you get in a relationship so you can walk away from or address and solve your issues.

Maintain Healthy Friendships and Family Connections: It is very easy to be so in love with someone that we become hyper focused on them. We may even neglect those who were there for us long before we met our partners. Ensure you keep up with your healthy platonic and familiar relationships. Introduce everyone to each other. Spend time all together, but also spend time with your people on your own.

Take care of your health: Monitor how your body feels. Stretch, engage in physical activity everyday, exercise as much as you can. Consume beneficial and uplifting material.

This includes food, beverages, reading material, religious material, social and other media. Our daily consumption has huge implications on our health. Make it a positive one.

Care about your partner’s interests: Spend time with them doing activities they like. Show genuine interest and a bit of curiosity.

Nurture your partner: Take care of their body, mind and soul. Be there for them in any way that benefits the both of you.

Be financially wise: Minimize your debt to income ratio. Diversify your income and investments. Amplify your profits.

Unleash your creativity: Engage in projects that allow you to be absolutely creative. Art is in everything. Find your niche and create.

Find your purpose for being good: Whether its from religion, spirituality, or therapy,

As you see, being a Wife is far more than knowing how to cook and clean. We must be whole and spectacular independent beings. Remember you own the title wife just by being who you are and by following these simple guidelines.

Thank you for reading an Article by me,

Beeing Bee